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Saturday, December 29, 2018

ways to avoid children from been coward

Ways to avoid children from been coward
Children always scared with the mythos story that actually never truly happen in their life. This is because they have been told about unreal story that can haunted their imagination. Parent should carefully chose and tell story to children and avoid the horror. If not, their children will traumatized and scared until they believe. That is why we as a parent must know the way to avoid them from being coward.
Firstly, as we know children always scared with of dark place. They will panic when they cannot see in the dark. So, the best way is when you just have to make your children relax. Tell them not scare in the dark because it just a normal things and no need to be scared to. Help them to find the switch until they can switch on the lamp by their own. The other way, you also can put slow in the dark inside their room so that they will overcome the panic when there is no light in their room.
Secondly, it is very common among children that very scare when tell them about monster or ghost. This scariness also from imagination. They tend to scare to stay alone because in their mind will always been haunted by this kind of imagination which is not true. They feel like been watching by the ghost all the time and this is so sad to them. So, the best way is never give them watching horror movie. Before going to sleep you better tell your children that there is no monster or ghost at all in their rooms.
Furthermore, children is always scared especially when they have nightmare. Sometimes, they cannot differentiate which one is a dream or reality. As a parent, you need to help them to differentiate and help them to calm after they get the nightmare. Do not scold them if your children tend to cry as they too scare just let them sleep with you until they calm and sleep again.

the way to avoid the selfishness

The way to avoid the selfishness
Parent now days play a big role built a good behaviour in their children. Most of parent especially among Asian too obsess make their children focus in their academy life. As a parent, they not suppose give a stressful life in their children’s.
Children mostly have the ability to think about people surrounding them in the age of 4. Before that, they do not have the filling to feel sorry about others. This is why they always been seen as a selfish. As a parent, we need to teach them how to feel sorry with people surrounding them.
For example, we need to teach them to understand what is feel sorry meant. Firstly, ask them to share their food and toys with their friends. This can avoid them to have selfishness in their heart. Secondly, we need to teach them to give more to others and tell them to console their siblings when they sad. Lastly, as a parent we ourselves need to show to them our true feeling when we feel sorry about people around us.
This is generally how you as a parent can built empathy within the early childhood. They may be difficult to understand but they will learn to emulate you from time to time and then, it will become a habit when they begin to understand.


screaming

Screaming
Screaming is common among childhood and we always been told that it is a normal behaviour children. This is because they feel like screaming was fun as their parent never ask them to stop from doing that.
From the research, there was a few condition that make children like to scream. Some children scream to attract their parent’s attention they feel like they can get something easier by this way. Maybe they learn from the parent itself as they see the way how their parent scream to others to give instruction or get something.
Furthermore, other condition that make children like to scream maybe because of the parent itself. Sometimes parent also did not give attention to their children for example when their children ask for something but the parent ignore while playing with phone or watching television. That is why the children become bored and make the screaming as one of the way to attract their parent.
In conclusion, parent should play a big role in order to educate their children to have a good manner. For example, parent should be creative to attract children’s attention by doing interesting activities such as playing at playground, bring children for a vacation and so on.


the bad influence of gadget to children

It is normal to our people now days to let their children playing with gadget such as smart phones especially during young age. This is happen because of parent want to make their children happy and attract their attention from crying. But without realise they did not know that this will effects their children and built a bad habit for their growth.
Firstly, when they addicted to the gadget they will become lazy especially effecting their study. Beside they will lose focus, this will make this children left behind among other.
This is scary because smart phone can make children do not want to obey to their parent. Parent should responsible in order to make sure their children did not obsess with these gadget.
As a parent, it is a big responsibility to give a good parenting ways or taught to their beloved son and daughter as children now days always been obsess with their surroundings. This is why children is special and they need to be educated in a good way for their better future.