shy/timid person

Shy/timid person

Children have multiple personality, some children are slow in social situation. They are neutrally shy. Shyness is want type of temperament that keep away our from social situation. Shyness among children as naturally formed. These properties disappear gradually with increasing age.

As a parent support your child to be confident and comfortable in social situation. You also can help your child to practice to be around others to encourage your child to be brave. Parents must avoid over comforting your child. Parents also must show a good way to interacts with the world. Parents is a role model for child to build your child’s self-esteem.

How to help your children from shyness? There many tips to prevent your child from shyness. Such as, show your empathy. Children who had shyness or scared to adults. The feeling of scared makes them avoid to be a social person. Parents must create a caring relationship to help build s shy child’s social skill. Understand his or her thoughts an emotions.

As a conclusion, shy children seem to has lack of confident. Change the environment to build a confident friendship and communication skill.  Allow the child time to adjust the situation to provide the child to interact with their friend.

depression

Depression

Depression is a serious medical illness. It can make us low spirits and hopelessness. Depression is not only for adult but it also can cause for children. Depression is very common this day. Children depression could be caused by various of factors that related such as environment genetic, life style, physical health and many more.

There are many sign and symptoms of childhood depression, such as show anger without a reasons, continuous feelings of sadness and hopelessness, change in appetite, sleeps and many more. If your child showed these symptoms, maybe your children may get a depression. Your children also show a low energy when they play with their friend.

To prevent depression from our child, we must pay attention for the children, if they showed some sign and symptoms about depression. Parent also must give moral support and always be there for them.

bully

Bully

Bully is an aggressive action that repeated for hurt another person, from physical, mental or emotion. Characteristic of bully are, first there are have intention to have an enemy. Second, imbalance of ability to do something. Third, repeated do the bully with certain period.

There are four type of bully. Such as physical bullying, verbal bullying, social bullying and cyber bullying. First, physical bullying is about hitting, kicking, stealing and damaging property. These day many verbal bullying that show from our children, such as insults, teasing and verbal abuse. This bully is a common these day.

Next is social bullying that cause humiliation such as lying, mimicking, spreading rumors and playing nasty jokes. Lastly is cyber bullying that used technology to bully people such as using an email, text, instant messaging, websites and other online platform to give and hurtful text, nasty gossip and spread rumours using technology.

As conclusion, bully can give a negative effect for health physical and emotion in short terms and long terms.

tantrum

Tantrum

To prevent tantrum is not a simple thing to do as a parent. Children from 0 to 6 years old are had very low grammar and words. With show a tantrum, this is a way child to communicate with us. It’s not simple to prevent tantrum, if we do not know how to handle this. Many parents will hit, angry, and shout to their children for hope their children will stop the tantrum.

There are several of ways what make to do if our children show a tantrum. Such as, show a coolness and do not shout and give angry face. If we scolded the children will cry yet strong. Just show a relax face. Second, try to persuade in a good way. Hold and carry the children with gently and friendly. That a sign if the children show a tantrum parents must pay attention.

Next if go to hypermarket. Children will show a tantrum if they want something. What we can do? We must switch their attention with another thing such as take them to other parts. We can also give a reward. We can use reward system if they show a tantrum. Give a choice if they want to show a good behave or not.

As conclusion, we must know how to handle them. We must always communicate with children about what they like or not. A good advice will reduce the tantrum.