the bad influence of gadget to children

The bad influence of gadget to children

It is normal to our people now days to let their children playing with gadget such as smart phones especially during young age. This is happen because of parent want to make their children happy and attract their attention from crying. But without realise they did not know that this will effects their children and built a bad habit for their growth.

Firstly, when they addicted to the gadget they will become lazy especially effecting their study. Beside they will lose focus, this will make this children left behind among other.

This is scary because smart phone can make children do not want to obey to their parent. Parent should responsible in order to make sure their children did not obsess with these gadget.

As a parent, it is a big responsibility to give a good parenting ways or taught to their beloved son and daughter as children now days always been obsess with their surroundings. This is why children is special and they need to be educated in a good way for their better future.

CHILD ABUSE PROBLEM

CHILD ABUSE PROBLEM

Every parent definitely wants a child. Children are the gifts of Allah SWT to the husband and wife. Child abuse refers to three types, namely physical, emotional and sexual.There are many factors in the case of child abuse. Among them, for working parents there are may face stress in the workplace. Workplace problems are brought back home and release the cage to innocent children. The actions of parents relinquishing anger and pressure on the whining little children for needing something is an unreasonable act. These immature parents may be hit and so on.

     

     Second factor is the financial problem faced by a family. The financial problems that hit will cause them to act violently against children. If the children are asking for money or other necessities, then the children will be victims of their soccer.

    

     Third factor is the household crisis that occurred due to outsiders. For example, the husband is cheating and ignoring his wife’s responsibilities. The result of this fray between the husband and wife causes children to become victims of fights.

     

     The authorities should take action like holding a mentor class to educate parents to carry out major responsibilities after marriage. In conclusion, child abuse is an abomination that is prohibited by realigion. Remember that, children are the sacred and clean of God Almighty’s trust. Therefore, it is our responsibility as parents to make it a good person. So avoid the child abuse case as it can destroy own self.

THE CHILD SILENT PROBLEM

THE CHILD SILENT PROBLEM

Bow down? Do not answer when asked and do not like to mingle? Certainly that behavior is a concern for parents when it happens to their loved ones.

Childlike attitudes, especially when side by side with strangers or outside the family group often make parents worried when thinking of the ability of the child to adjust to him when he goes to school tomorrow.

Among the factors that influence the attitudes of children are the genetic factors. Parent exposure to social sciences, lifestyle environments and guardians or caregivers. genetic factors play an important role in the formation of a child's personality. This quiet child's attitude is also the norm of his descendants. For example, when one parent is less talkative or quiet, his son has greater potential to inherit that attitude.

Children may not be separated by a quiet attitude but can be nurtured and exposed to social science. However, if no exposure is given to the child, they will continue to be silent and cause social interaction to be difficult when applied to school.

We can differentiate children at care centers or at home. In nurseries, more children mingle, easy to be friendly and not shy and joking with many people of all ages. Children living in homes should be given good guidance in socializing, how to communicate and talk about it.

Late talker children

LATE TALKER CHILDREN

According to a study, children normally begin to talk about a year old and above. It depends on the normal speech of children around the age of 10 to 12 months in which the first words begin to appear.

Factors of late talker

There is a major contributing factor in addressing child to late talker is hearing problem. If a child has a hearing problem, it is difficult for them to get language information, to imitate and produce sounds because they can not hear the sounds that people are making around.

Secondly, parents are less time-consuming  play with children and talk with children. Thus, it causes the child to lack language information directly from the person closest to them. Try not to teach them with plate language. Take out the right words so they can learn.

Lastly, health can also be a factor for late talker children. Children often have fever and flu. In addition, seizures or births as premature infants are also at risk of causing a child to talk slowly. But not all will experience it. It depends on the child's health development.

How to overcome the late talker problems?

Firstly, chat is simple techniques that can be practiced since birth. The frequency of a father's mother entertaining a children makes it quick to speak. At the same time, expose children to the use of foreign languages such as Arabic, English, Japanese and so on.

Secondly, we as a parents should let our children imitate what we say. Because they are in the period of learning to speak and collect the words in memory. Therefore, Preventing the child from imitating the conversation will make him lose his interest in saying the words he heard.

Hyperactive children

HYPERACTIVE CHILDREN

Hyperactivity is a pattern of behavior in someone who shows that he can not sit quietly, uncontrollable, impatient and impulsive (acting as he pleases). Hyperactive kids are always moving and never engage in fun games or toys that are loved by other children as they are, their attention is to shift from one focus to another. They seem endlessly looking for something interesting and tiring but not coming.

The first factor that cause hyperactive children are toxic factors. Some substances such as salicylates and preservatives have the potential to form hyperactive behavior in children. In addition, lead levels in increased blood serum, mothers who smoke and consume alcohol, develop X-rays during pregnancy can also develop hyperactive children.

Usually, genetic factors are high correlation due to hyperactivity in children. The ways to deal with hyperactive children is to use their free time to take the child out of the playground, read the book together, or just play and joke with them. With this, it can be especially helpful for establishing a friendly relationship with hyperactive children. Hyperactive children may also be allowed to exercise their own activities as long as they do not violate the rules that have been made.

In  addition, hyperactive children are also very energetic, causing their concentration to be difficult. One way to help cope with this extra energy is by giving them many opportunities to do physical activity. Although we should not allow the child to get too tired, exercise is a useful way to help focus the excessive energy positively.

In conclusion, hyperactive children are required to adapt to the social environment. Besides teachers, attention from parents also important in order to overcome this hyperactive children. The world of the child's life is full of excitement and joy, but the storytelling activities can give children a happy, funny and fun feeling. This phenomenon can help teachers so that students can adapt to their families, friends, teachers and the community.

CHILD LEARNING PROBLEMS

CHILD LEARNING PROBLEMS

If your child hard to read? Did he have difficulty in school? If the answer is yes, your child may experience one of these four learning problems of the child. Due to environmental and genetic factors, some children may experience difficulty in learning. However, they can still go through normal life like other children. Children learning problems are fundamentally a problem of neurological processing. This problem affects the basic subject skills of children such as reading, writing and speaking. So it’s important that you help them with these learning disabilities in the early stages.

LEARNING FACTOR

1.Social communication problem

For these problems, the child has a lower level of social communication than general verbal and cognitive skills. You may see the following issues in children with this problem. For example, not able to respond quickly, not understand when it comes to turn in the game, quickly switch topics and not know how to express emotions and feelings.

2.Dyscalculia ( unable to understand the number )

This problem makes children difficult to understand and difficult to solve math problems. All concepts involving numbers are difficult to understand for children with this problems. Unfortunately, it can last for life. Here are some of the symptoms that you will see. For example, the problem of understanding the quantity and the concept of mathematics, not successfully associate numbers and words such as 3 with three and not able to solve math problems. Many experts call it ‘mathematics disorder’ or mathematical problems because children just struggle with mathematical bases.

3.The problem of receptive and expensive mixtures

They will have trouble processing and understanding what they are saying. Even they can not express their thoughts and feelings with words. This may not appears to be a big problem, but it can impact the child’s social skills. So see the following symptoms such as not understand what others saying, not share what he thinks, the academic is not good and not good reading, writing sentences correctly. It’s very important as a parent to be patient in analyzing your child. Understand their strengths and weakness. For example, some children who are less knowledgeable in socializing better tha themselves express themselves through art. If you are aware of something ldess with your child, do not keep pushing, but help them to go through that difficulty. With your support and encouragement, your child can pass this shortage.

NUTRITIONAL SYMPTOMS OF CHILDREN

NUTRITIONAL SYMPTOMS OF CHILDREN

One of the causes of a child's loss of appetite is because parents include vegetables in their diet. It's been a habit of small children not eating vegetables but parents can’t let this thing go on.

Among the tips for persuading children to eat vegetables and fruits is to cook with their children. It is not wrong if parents involve children in the preparation and purchase of kitchen utensils especially in parts of vegetables and fruits. With this activity, children will be able to know and wipe the types of vegetables and fruits. asking them to help us cook in the kitchen is also a way to attract them.

The second tips is that mothers can stimulate the interest of the little ones by producing fruit-rich drinks and vegetables served in the most creative way to raise their interest in eating. mothers can also prepare meals in several patterns according to their own creativity. For example, cars, bikes, flowers, animals, and so on. Vegetables can be hidden behind fruit juices mixed with drinks such as yoghurt.

The third tips is that mothers can also prepare cut fruits and vegetable salad mixed with some of her favourite fruits in the refrigerator. Can also be used as a snack when watching television when hungry or after a child returns from school. When the mother is creative in the preparation, the child will feel attracted to the diet.

In conclusion, parents should avoid the child from providing snacks. Children who often take snacks cause a loss of interest in taking vegetables.