shy/timid person

Shy/timid person

Children have multiple personality, some children are slow in social situation. They are neutrally shy. Shyness is want type of temperament that keep away our from social situation. Shyness among children as naturally formed. These properties disappear gradually with increasing age.

As a parent support your child to be confident and comfortable in social situation. You also can help your child to practice to be around others to encourage your child to be brave. Parents must avoid over comforting your child. Parents also must show a good way to interacts with the world. Parents is a role model for child to build your child’s self-esteem.

How to help your children from shyness? There many tips to prevent your child from shyness. Such as, show your empathy. Children who had shyness or scared to adults. The feeling of scared makes them avoid to be a social person. Parents must create a caring relationship to help build s shy child’s social skill. Understand his or her thoughts an emotions.

As a conclusion, shy children seem to has lack of confident. Change the environment to build a confident friendship and communication skill.  Allow the child time to adjust the situation to provide the child to interact with their friend.

depression

Depression

Depression is a serious medical illness. It can make us low spirits and hopelessness. Depression is not only for adult but it also can cause for children. Depression is very common this day. Children depression could be caused by various of factors that related such as environment genetic, life style, physical health and many more.

There are many sign and symptoms of childhood depression, such as show anger without a reasons, continuous feelings of sadness and hopelessness, change in appetite, sleeps and many more. If your child showed these symptoms, maybe your children may get a depression. Your children also show a low energy when they play with their friend.

To prevent depression from our child, we must pay attention for the children, if they showed some sign and symptoms about depression. Parent also must give moral support and always be there for them.

bully

Bully

Bully is an aggressive action that repeated for hurt another person, from physical, mental or emotion. Characteristic of bully are, first there are have intention to have an enemy. Second, imbalance of ability to do something. Third, repeated do the bully with certain period.

There are four type of bully. Such as physical bullying, verbal bullying, social bullying and cyber bullying. First, physical bullying is about hitting, kicking, stealing and damaging property. These day many verbal bullying that show from our children, such as insults, teasing and verbal abuse. This bully is a common these day.

Next is social bullying that cause humiliation such as lying, mimicking, spreading rumors and playing nasty jokes. Lastly is cyber bullying that used technology to bully people such as using an email, text, instant messaging, websites and other online platform to give and hurtful text, nasty gossip and spread rumours using technology.

As conclusion, bully can give a negative effect for health physical and emotion in short terms and long terms.

tantrum

Tantrum

To prevent tantrum is not a simple thing to do as a parent. Children from 0 to 6 years old are had very low grammar and words. With show a tantrum, this is a way child to communicate with us. It’s not simple to prevent tantrum, if we do not know how to handle this. Many parents will hit, angry, and shout to their children for hope their children will stop the tantrum.

There are several of ways what make to do if our children show a tantrum. Such as, show a coolness and do not shout and give angry face. If we scolded the children will cry yet strong. Just show a relax face. Second, try to persuade in a good way. Hold and carry the children with gently and friendly. That a sign if the children show a tantrum parents must pay attention.

Next if go to hypermarket. Children will show a tantrum if they want something. What we can do? We must switch their attention with another thing such as take them to other parts. We can also give a reward. We can use reward system if they show a tantrum. Give a choice if they want to show a good behave or not.

As conclusion, we must know how to handle them. We must always communicate with children about what they like or not. A good advice will reduce the tantrum.

ways to avoid children from been coward

Ways to avoid children from been coward

Children always scared with the mythos story that actually never truly happen in their life. This is because they have been told about unreal story that can haunted their imagination. Parent should carefully chose and tell story to children and avoid the horror. If not, their children will traumatized and scared until they believe. That is why we as a parent must know the way to avoid them from being coward.

Firstly, as we know children always scared with of dark place. They will panic when they cannot see in the dark. So, the best way is when you just have to make your children relax. Tell them not scare in the dark because it just a normal things and no need to be scared to. Help them to find the switch until they can switch on the lamp by their own. The other way, you also can put slow in the dark inside their room so that they will overcome the panic when there is no light in their room.

Secondly, it is very common among children that very scare when tell them about monster or ghost. This scariness also from imagination. They tend to scare to stay alone because in their mind will always been haunted by this kind of imagination which is not true. They feel like been watching by the ghost all the time and this is so sad to them. So, the best way is never give them watching horror movie. Before going to sleep you better tell your children that there is no monster or ghost at all in their rooms.

Furthermore, children is always scared especially when they have nightmare. Sometimes, they cannot differentiate which one is a dream or reality. As a parent, you need to help them to differentiate and help them to calm after they get the nightmare. Do not scold them if your children tend to cry as they too scare just let them sleep with you until they calm and sleep again.

the way to avoid the selfishness

The way to avoid the selfishness

Parent now days play a big role built a good behaviour in their children. Most of parent especially among Asian too obsess make their children focus in their academy life. As a parent, they not suppose give a stressful life in their children’s.

Children mostly have the ability to think about people surrounding them in the age of 4. Before that, they do not have the filling to feel sorry about others. This is why they always been seen as a selfish. As a parent, we need to teach them how to feel sorry with people surrounding them.

For example, we need to teach them to understand what is feel sorry meant. Firstly, ask them to share their food and toys with their friends. This can avoid them to have selfishness in their heart. Secondly, we need to teach them to give more to others and tell them to console their siblings when they sad. Lastly, as a parent we ourselves need to show to them our true feeling when we feel sorry about people around us.

This is generally how you as a parent can built empathy within the early childhood. They may be difficult to understand but they will learn to emulate you from time to time and then, it will become a habit when they begin to understand.

screaming

Screaming

Screaming is common among childhood and we always been told that it is a normal behaviour children. This is because they feel like screaming was fun as their parent never ask them to stop from doing that.

From the research, there was a few condition that make children like to scream. Some children scream to attract their parent’s attention they feel like they can get something easier by this way. Maybe they learn from the parent itself as they see the way how their parent scream to others to give instruction or get something.

Furthermore, other condition that make children like to scream maybe because of the parent itself. Sometimes parent also did not give attention to their children for example when their children ask for something but the parent ignore while playing with phone or watching television. That is why the children become bored and make the screaming as one of the way to attract their parent.

In conclusion, parent should play a big role in order to educate their children to have a good manner. For example, parent should be creative to attract children’s attention by doing interesting activities such as playing at playground, bring children for a vacation and so on.